can not decide to get married

Can not decide to get married problems is the often case in a women, And the fear feeling is very seasonable. Because a women certainly do not want to go wrong in choosing a partner, Here is the beginning of why you can not marry as soon as what you expected. When the courtship time, Between men and women always lie to each other. Is that true ? " Yes..That is true " Because in courtship time we always show the best hings of us to our partner, We will never ever to show the bad part of our selves. Because if you do your partner will leaving you. And without we realize , Lied that we did will hurt our selves when a relationship go to more serious level " a wedding ".

How exactly we know the right men for a women ?

It is very difficult to know where the best man for us ( Women ) to get married with, Because like i said earlier they always looks good in everything. As well as women always look good for men who love her, But after marriage why all be different " That is happen because the lied that we made before ( In the courtship time ) ". When your marriage still new, All looks fine for few months or years. But after several times running little by little the problem show up in your relationship. Problems that arise can be various kind of forms " For example : The different of opinion, Different of thought and so forth.

How do i know he is the best for me ?

" The most perfect person for us is the person who we love " Are you agree with that ? Yea you have to, What you should do is always think positive about him. Due to always think positive then you will also receive a positive things in the end. You do not love him sincerely if you always see the negative side he has, To love him then you are ready to accept the good and bad traits he possesses. Even if you are not ready to accept him like what he is, It means you can see the negative side he has is bigger than his positive. This assessment also depends on the way of your viewpoint, Because something that you think is right is not necessarily the same as the way of thinking that he had.

What is the good and responsible men look like ?

A good man is always in front when both of you are walking ( Standby vigil in front of you ), Always be in the back while walking on the road uphill, When angry his eyes is not red, Never raised his hand to hit you, He is not talk to much, He always look at your eyes while talking, He doesn't happy when the other man see your beautiful body ( He will ask you to use something to cover your body), He work for you and the kids and ask you to stay at home to look after the family needs, He did not ask but just give, When you gave birth a baby from him than he cried ( Doesn't mean that he is weak ), That's the man you exactly should you search. And be sure by knowing that traits then i am sure you will get the real happiness of your relationships.

What is your reason for writing about this ?

Thank you " That is a great question", A few days ago i met a girl from San Fransisco and she asked me about this problem. We discuss about this topic till the mid night, And she was so happy that night because she could met with me and she felt like she got the answer that she actually looking for.Hear every answer i give, Her eyes seem to cry. She said " Why do not you write it down every thought that might be useful for others. Felt confident that i had touched her heart, I began to write this first article for this blog about the human psyche. Which is expected to give a positive value to the readers.

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